Winter Park Civic Center: The City of Winter Park owns and operates several wedding and reception sites. Each facility is managed and maintained by city staff with experience in all types of event planning. Winter Park is centrally located, making each rental facility both easy to find and convenient to most local highways. All of the city-owned wedding and reception sites are located within a two mile radius of picturesque downtown Winter Park. Winter Park is a premier destination for weddings and receptions and offers a variety of venues that can accommodate your special day! Front Entry of the Rachel D. Murrah Civic
Center of Winter Park. Built in 1986, the Civic Center offers affordable banquet and wedding space in a plush facility. An outdoor terrace is ideal for wedding ceremonies and adjoins the grand ballroom with a 35-foot cathedral ceiling for a reception. Moveable partitions allow flexibility in room size to accommodate parties of 10 to 400. Banquet tables and padded mahogany chairs are provided. The 55-by-61-foot ballroom, patio, kitchen, and / or four different 271/2-by-21-foot meeting rooms may be rented for events. Civic Center staff will set up tables and chairs for events. Miscellaneous rental items include a baby grand piano, upright piano, risers, portable public address system, microphones, a podium and projector screens.
In the past due to the spiritual nature of the occasion, the date and time of the marriage ceremony is decided in advance by a fortune teller. Asking permission to “receive” the bride In the past, on the wedding day the groom’s mother (along with a few other close relatives) would make a trip to the bride’s home, carrying along a gift of betel. The mother would officially ask permission to “receive” the bride and then notifies the family of the time the procession would arrive to bring the bride to her new home. It was at this time that the bride’s family would confirm the state of things and proceedings would take place. In actuality, this now obsolete ceremony was used in the past to confirm at the last minute that the marriage would even take place.
Due to often forced arranged marriages, the bride sometimes fled beforehand and so this ceremony was essential in confirming that things were going smoothly. In modern Vietnam where people choose their own marriage partners based on love and individual needs, this ceremony is chosen upon the couple whether to go through the process or not. Receiving the bride The procession of the groom�s family is led by specific order; usually the first person will be a man chosen as the representative of the groom’s house (he should have a good manner of speaking along with high status in society), followed by the groom’s father, the groom, then the rest of his immediate family and close friends.
Huge traditional umbrellas are carried and accompany the front of the procession. Interestingly, in the past the groom’s mother did not take part in the procession as a sign that she would not be a threat to the future bride (and she would even hide for a short period upon the bride’s welcome into the groom’s home). However, this practice has long been abandoned. The number of people participating in a procession varies but is usually restricted to a smaller number (20 or so) to make it easier on the bride’s family who will be receiving all of the guests. In the procession, the groom and his family (among others) will be bearing elaborately decorated lacquer boxes, covered in red cloth. Inside these boxes are gifts representing the wealth the groom’s family will bring to the bride’s family.
Gifts include: betel, wine, tea, fruit, cakes, a roast pig, and an abundance of jewelry for the bride (the amount of jewelry depending on the personal wealth of the groom’s family). Usually the number of gift boxes varies from 6 or 8, but never 7 or 9 which is seen as bad luck. Upon arriving at the bride’s home, firecrackers are lit to alert the bride’s family, who then light their own round of firecrackers to welcome the groom’s family into their home. After each gift of food is accepted by the bride’s parents, the groom then receives permission to greet the bride, who is finally brought out. The ceremony begins in front of the ancestor altar in the bride�s home. The bride and groom will kneel down in front of the altar and burn incense sticks, asking permission from the bride’s ancestors to bless their marriage and their future family.
Tea Ceremony in Vietnamese Wedding Tea Ceremony (Groom & Bride serve wine to the parents) While tea has always been an essential part of Vietnamese life, for commoners Vietnamese tea culture never became as complex or bogged down with rituals as its counterparts in Japan or China. Nevertheless, a traditional wedding is about the only time in a Vietnamese person’s life that a formal tea ceremony is essential. In The Vietnamese Weddingv the Groom and the Bride in front of all their family and friends will serve tea (or wine) to their parents. Their parents would take turn to give their blessing, advice about marriage and family to the couple and give the newly wedded value gifts such as money in a red envelop. The groom then pours tea for the couple, first into one large bowl then into one cup for bride. They drink the tea as they are watched closely by their family and friends. The offer and acceptance of tea is a very important ritual in Vietnamese culture. It denotes the commencement of important interactions and events.
Afterwards, the couple will turn and bow to their parents giving thanks for raising and protecting them. The bride and groom will then bow to each other. While tea has always been an essential part of Vietnamese life, for commoners Vietnamese tea culture never became as complex or bogged down with rituals as its counterparts in Japan or China. Nevertheless, a traditional wedding is about the only time in a Vietnamese person’s life that a formal tea ceremony is essential. The bride and groom in front of all their family and friends will serve tea (or wine) to their parents. Each parent will then give advice about marriage and family to the couple.
A candle ceremony will follow, symbolizing the joining of the bride and groom and their families. The gift boxes filled with jewelry that were brought by the groom’s family will be opened by the groom�s mother who will then put each piece on the bride for good fortune. Due to western influence in the concept of wedding rings, in modern weddings what usually follows is the exchanging of wedding bands (however Catholic Vietnamese families save this for the separate church ceremony). The bride and groom will then be presented with small red envelopes containing money from close family members. Finally, the groom officially asks to bring the bride to his home, and she follows with the procession to the groom’s house.
The ceremony at the groom’s home As the procession arrives back at the groom’s house, the groom’s family members that had stayed behind will light firecrackers in celebration. The newlyweds will be brought by the groom’s parents to their own ancestor altar, where another ancestor ceremony takes place and the bride is introduced to her new relatives. Finally, bride is then brought into what is to be the couple’s room and introduced to their new marriage bed. The banquet party Following the ceremony at the groom’s house, all of the bride and groom’s family and friends are invited to a massive banquet party.
However, nowadays the order of these ceremonies are slightly rearranged and usually (especially in big cities) the banquet takes place right after the ceremony at the bride’s house, with the bride being brought to the groom’s house only afterwards. The number of guests in attendance at these banquets are huge, usually in the hundreds. Elaborate 7-10 course meals are served, with popular dishes including seafood hotpot, the Vietnamese seven courses of beef, and so on so forth. Guests are expected to bring gifts, often money, which the groom and bride at one point in the banquet will go from table to table collecting.
Occasionally, the newlyweds may profit from the monetary gifts from their family and guests even after they have paid for their lavish and expensive feasts or reception. In modern weddings, brides usually change into 3 different gowns during the wedding banquet, 2 of which include the western white wedding gown and once again into the traditional �o d�i she had worn for the previous ceremonies. Modern compromises and differences in religion While most Vietnamese are Mahayana Buddhists, a significant minority are Catholic, which actually does not change much about most traditional Vietnamese weddings, whether celebrated in Vietnam or overseas.
This is explained because since most Vietnamese practice ancestor worship regardless of denomination; even Catholic Vietnamese have no qualms about the ceremonies traditionally performed at both the bride and groom’s house. However, before the banquet, Buddhist families usually visit a temple whereas Catholic families will attend the typical western ceremony at a church. Most Vietnamese weddings even these days incorporate both eastern and western traditions; one such compromise is the bride wearing both a western gown and an �o d�i throughout the day.
Symbols Traditional and modern symbols of marriage are often featured during Vietnamese marriage ceremonies as decorations on the wedding umbrellas, lacquer gift boxes (or the red cloth that covers them), or even the decorations in the homes of both the bride and groom. They usually include lanterns, doves, initials of the couple, so on so forth. However one symbol that is indispensable are the words “song hỷ” (also written as the character 囍). Vietnamese was written formerly in Chinese characters as well as the vernacular Chinese influenced Nom script before the 20th century, and while literacy in these scripts during feudalistic times was restricted mostly to scholars, officials and other members of the elite, characters such as these have always played an aesthetic role on important occasions such as wedding